Growing Up Without Wrapped Christmas Gifts Under the Tree in Nigeria

Christmas has arrived early this year, and while it feels a little different, it's in the most delightful way. Growing up as a girl in Nigeria, Africa, my Christmas experiences were shaped by traditions distinct from those of Europe or the Western world. I never had the chance to pick gifts wrapped under a decorated Christmas tree, as is customary in some parts of the world. Historically, as noted on Wikipedia, the tradition of decorating Christmas trees originated in Germany and Livonia (modern-day Estonia and Latvia), where Protestant Christians began bringing these ornamented trees into their homes.

If it feels like the true essence of Christmas has been overshadowed by an avalanche of wrapping paper and decorations, exploring how other cultures celebrate can be surprisingly grounding. Holiday traditions differ significantly across countries, shaped by factors like climate, history, values, and landscapes. While exchanging gifts remains a common theme in many nations, the customs surrounding them vary greatly. These cherished traditions remind us that Christmas is a deeply personal and unique celebration for everyone who observes it.

For me, growing up, Christmas was magical in its own way. My mother would always buy me beautiful clothes and thoughtful gifts for the holidays. I fondly remember wearing outfits that cost several thousand naira-a big deal back in the 1990s. The joy of getting dressed in these special clothes, attending church services, enjoying festive meals, and visiting relatives who generously gave money as gifts left me with cherished memories.

Nigerian Christmas traditions are a vibrant heritage of culture and family. They encompass colorful celebrations with feasting, heartfelt church services, carol singing, and gift-giving often in monetary form. Many families travel back to their hometowns for the season, especially those living in cities like Lagos. The holiday is an opportunity for reunion and celebration. Nigerians take pride in wearing their finest outfits, indulging in festive meals such as jollof rice and chicken, dancing to lively music, and enjoying fun moments with Father Christmas at popular venues like amusement parks in Apapa during those days. One of my favorite aspects of Nigerian Christmas traditions is the spirit of generosity; gifts, money, and food are exchanged not just among family and friends but also shared with the less fortunate in the community.

Now that I’m older, I find myself reflecting on Christmas differently. Friends and family have already started reaching out, playfully reminding me not to forget their birthday or Christmas gifts. While gift-giving has always taken center stage for me during the festive season, this year has been a bit unusual. Since December began, my little girl and I have been juggling our busy schedules her kindergarten activities combined with my work commitments have left us with very little time to browse for presents.

Still, I managed to stumble upon some delightful clothing and accessories for kids at Gucci. Although I like Louis Vuitton, this time I couldn’t resist picking out some lovely items for my daughter. The staff at Gucci were wonderfully accommodating they made the entire process seamless. All I had to do was collect everything in Frankfurt store. which turned out to be a delightful experience. Special thanks to Ms. M for ensuring it all went smoothly!

I’m planning to set up our Christmas tree today something I’ve been eager to do so my daughter can start embracing these holiday traditions from an early age. As we celebrate this special time of the year, I’d like to wish everyone a Merry Christmas filled with love and joy. May you all have a wonderful New Year ahead. Wishing you warmth, happiness, and countless blessings!