Why I Fall in Love with My Brother

Why I love My siblings so much and My big brother is my hero. By the way, I have three brothers, one sister and three nieces. And of course I also have wonderful step sisters and 
brothers. But my big brother is my hero. 

I'm absolutely in love with this man. Why do I love him? I remember how this  man took care of seven children (four siblings and three nieces) that was not his own. How he work so hard to give us the best Education, Food, Cloths etc. How he bath and prepared our meal, he gave us all his best. He left a woman he loved for the sake of his siblings because the woman did'nt care about us. He refuses to marry because he don't want any woman to mistreat us. 

Why did my brother have to play the role of a father and a mother in our lives? When our mother died in the year 1997, I was only 11 years old and just graduated from the elementary school, while Shem and Grace was still in the nursery school. 

All hope seems to have gone when mummy died. A lot of people had wondered on how would have survived without our mother, since we were from polygamous family. So some members of the family thought of adopting some of us in order to train us, but my big brother, and our late elder sister, Mary of blessed memory stood in the gap to fend for me and my other siblings. Sister Mary who was married to King Federick Ogunyemi with three daughters, she had left the royal home, to come and stay in my father house to take care of us, but unfortunately she too died in my father house, shortly after our mother's death leaving her three Kids behind (My nieces). Now the load is more, some family and friends were concerned about our welfare. I remember one of my mummy's friend Mrs Olaiya, who had so much sympathy on us and how she was moved with compassion. She also introduced Captain Ekeinde to me, the husband of one of the Nigeria popular actress Omotola Jalade Ekeinde. Captain and his beautiful wife had paid us visit on two occassions. Captain Ekeinde agreed to sponsored my education, and I will 
also have to live in their house but my late father refused bluntely saying not when he still alive will another man train his child for him but he did that in wisdom. He told me that he don't know this Ekeindes family so well and what if they maltreat, like every other story we see in the news in Nigeria. His words melted my soul even though I have agreed to live with the Ekeinde family, I quickly changed my mind and heed to my father's advice. I knew my daddy is not a lazy man because i am proud of all his achievement but many of our family and friends had thought how will a man of many children and wives take care of these children and to bring them up in the way of the Lord. Alas! My big brother eventually became our father and mother even though he was a young person then. He work so hard to fend for us. He trained us till we all graduated from the higher institution. He is still taking care of the family till date, one of my niece is presently studying at Lagos State Polytechnic. 


A lot of people could not have understand, why I love my brother so much, so I chose him as my hero, when I realized he suffered for me and others. He is my hero because the most difficult and beautiful times I ever had were with him. 

My brother, has helped a lot of people in life, and he still helping people, we all are heros, if we love and help the people around us, we can change the world. There are many people who deserve to be heroes, be a hero to your person and others. May I say this I love you brother and happy birthady, to you Prince Ademola Hosea! May the good Lord bless you and may you live to eat all the fruits of your labour in Jesus name. You will always be my best friend, my big friend and my hero. Love you brother! "With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation "- psalms 91:16. 

The unveiling my very own Man Crush for this week, Prince Ademola Titus Hosea. On behalf of the entire family of Hosea Ebiniyi, here is to wish you a happy birthday and to tell you how we love you and generation yet to come shall read about you our hero!