Celebrating My First Birthday as a Mother

Today marks my birthday, a significant occasion as I celebrate it for the first time as a mother. Indeed, every experience has its inaugural moment. This journey has been remarkable for both me and my little family, and we are profoundly grateful for the gift of life. This milestone is one worth celebrating with all of you, and I would like to take this moment to express my heartfelt gratitude to our friends and family who have showered us with gifts and support during this time. Life's true beauty lies in the wonderful people we share it with. There’s nothing quite like the warmth of togetherness, along with the genuine love and kindness we show each other. I am truly thankful to God for making all of this possible. Here’s to another joyful birthday for me!

I am excited to announce that I will be publishing a book detailing my journey to motherhood and the experiences surrounding my pregnancy. With faith, all things are achievable. As the scripture states, those who are planted will bear fruit in their old age, and their produce will remain vibrant. Indeed, God’s faithfulness endures, even in the face of our shortcomings. I have some tools that I used but rest assured, you will find more insights in my forthcoming book and YouTube series titled "Time and Me." The Seed! Dear friends. You can call me Mama Organic. As I mentioned in my last post, embracing a healthy lifestyle has been the most important part of my pregnancy journey. That's why I'm excited to share all my recipes with anyone who wants to join me. In my book, you'll also discover other helpful tools that I've used along the way. I am truly grateful to the Almighty God, who has been our support throughout the ages and continues to guide us today. Our gratitude to God, the creator of everything, is everlasting.

Bible passage for the day- Isaiah 60:3 And nations shall come to your light, and kings to the brightness of your rising.

Overcoming Economic Crisis

Overcoming Economic Crisis: Effective Approaches- Prepare for any upcoming challenges Build up savings and make smart investments Empower your family and friends Positively impact your business Stay focused and connected in your business endeavors Embrace entrepreneurship, whether in small or large-scale ventures Stay informed about current events and utilize information wisely Distinguish between needs and wants Lead a content life, stay focused, and prioritize prayer and reading.

It is imperative that we cease attributing our challenges to external factors. While the corruption of certain global leaders is a significant issue, it does not justify inaction. Although the environment can significantly influence a nation's development, it should not dictate an individual's potential for success. Each person must cultivate a mindset geared towards achievement, irrespective of their country's circumstances. Economic crises are an inevitable aspect of life, occurring regardless of the robustness of global systems. Some individuals may experience profound disappointment, while others will adapt and persevere. In situations that exceed our control, seeking divine guidance and support is essential. Therefore, we encourage everyone to engage in prayer for the betterment of the world.

In the context of the current global economic crisis, possessing a certificate alone is insufficient. It is imperative for individuals to cultivate their skills and collaborate effectively with others. The biblical passage from Proverbs 22:29 states, "Do you see a man who excels in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before unknown men." This underscores the importance of engaging in productive activities. It is unwise to depend solely on others, as human imperfection is a universal trait. Recognizing that others may fail to meet your expectations can foster a more realistic perspective, as you too may not fulfill the expectations of others. Acknowledging the realities of the world can significantly influence one's mindset and beliefs. Rather than merely criticizing global leaders, it is more constructive to advocate for change and pray for a better world. Through meditation, individuals can gain insights and clarity, which can guide their actions. Pen by Queendaline

A Reflection on Thankfulness for My Baby Baptism

Baby christening is a cherished Christian tradition that we are grateful to partake in. I am grateful for the christening of our daughter on Sunday 21.07.2024. Our daughter was baptized on this day in the name of the Father, Son, and the Holy Spirit.

The day couldn't have been more perfect for our daughter's baptism at the evangelical church. The weather was ideal, and we were surrounded by loved ones to witness this important occasion.

I am thankful for the successful baptism of my daughter. I extend my gratitude to God and the entire Evangelical church Greentown (Grünstadt) for their love and hospitality during the ceremony last Sunday.

I want to express my gratitude to all our family and friends in France, Germany, USA and Nigeria for their love and support. As stated in Mark 10:13-16, the scripture reminds us of the importance of welcoming children and their innocence, for they hold a special place in the kingdom of God.

The baptism verse in the Bible is derived from Psalm 139:5, which reads "You go before me and follow me. You place your hand of blessing on my head."

A special thank you goes to Pastor Mrs. Prün for conducting a beautiful service. She carefully selected the songs, hymns, and Bible passage for the day, creating a memorable and joyous occasion with God's family.

Lydia enjoyed the service, surprising her father who was unsure if she would stay till the end. Despite being breastfed once and falling asleep during the photo session, we stayed till the end of the sermon.

The hymn-Praise to the Lord, the Almighty, the King of creation! Oh my soul, praise Him, for He is your health and salvation! All who hear, come near to His temple; praise Him with joyful adoration. The song „He's Got the Whole World in His Hands" was sung in both German and English during the ceremony. I am eternally grateful to God for making everything possible, and I want to express my heartfelt thanks to all our guests. Following the ceremony, we changed clothes and proceeded to the restaurant for the reception.

Additionally, her christening took place at our family house in Nigeria on the same day, with the presence of her godfather Mr. Tope Saliu and godmother Mrs Grace Iyabo Saliu, RCCG members from Festac parish, and Pastor Momah from Deeper Life Church. All her cousins were also in attendance. I am thankful for the blessings bestowed upon my daughter and me.

Lydia officially has 4 godmothers and one godfather. Following the christening, she gained an additional godmother, bringing the total to 5.She has 3 godmothers in Germany, one in Nigeria, and one in Paris, as well as one godfather. There is still an opportunity for anyone who wishes to become her godmother. A child is nurtured not only by her immediate family but also by the wider community, which ultimately becomes a global family.

Thank you to everyone who joined us for Lydia's christening at our family home in Nigeria. It was a special day with her godfather Mr. Tope Saliu, godmother Mrs. Grace Iyabo (Ebiniyi) Saliu, RCCG members from Festac parish, and Pastor from Deeper Life Church, as well as all her cousins. I am truly grateful for the blessings that have been given to my daughter and me. Lydia now has 3 godmothers and one godfather. After the christening, she gained another godmother, making it a total of 4. She has 2 godmothers in Germany, one in Nigeria, and one in Paris, along with one godfather.

We are so grateful for the love and support of our global family. Once again, thank you all for your prayers and support. God bless you. And a special thank you to my elder brother, Mr. Ademola Ebiniyi , Aunty Tina, my siblings, the Saliu family, and all our friends and well-wishers. God bless you all and keep you all in Jesus Christ name.

Honoring the Innocence and Happiness of Children's Day

Children are considered to be the most precious beings on Earth, deserving of a life filled with goodness and quality. It is imperative that children are safeguarded and their rights and freedoms are upheld and respected at all times. It is crucial for parents, especially mothers, to prioritize the well-being of their children. Parents should be vigilant in protecting their children from harm. Young children, particularly babies and those under the age of three, are unable to communicate their discomfort verbally. Therefore, it is the responsibility of parents, especially mothers, to use their intuition to identify and address any issues their children may be facing. Neglecting to closely monitor and observe changes in children is not advisable. Parents must be attentive and keep a close eye on their children's well-being. A concerning anecdote was shared about a father whose daughter ingested soap, fell and injured her head on multiple occasions, and another daughter placed her hand in boiling water. This raises questions about the mother's awareness and attentiveness to her children's safety. The effectiveness of a mother's watchfulness and instinct in safeguarding children from potential hazards is uncertain based on the aforementioned situation. As we celebrate Children's Day, let us extend warm wishes to all the children around the world. May the Almighty continue to protect and watch over our young ones. God bless all the children in the world. Amen.

Becoming a Mother: A Journey of Self-Discovery

My Seed, My Story: A Personal Story of Overcoming Adversity and Finding Purpose' 'The Miraculous Journey of My Seed: From Planting to Harvest. Becoming a mother motherhood is undeniably one of life's most fulfilling experiences. It is an honor to be able to narrate my journey towards becoming a parent. As a first-time parent, I am still amazed by the process of becoming one. I'm sure many are left wondering after reading this blog. "A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world." John 16:21 The passage from John 16:21 illustrates the profound transformation that occurs when a woman gives birth. Despite the pain and anguish experienced during childbirth, the joy of bringing a new life into the world eclipses all previous suffering. This verse highlights the powerful emotions and sacrifices that women endure in the process of becoming mothers.

Frequently, people inquire whether I have children or when I plan to have my own. I have often used pictures of friends' and family's babies as profile pictures on my social media accounts because I have a deep affection for children, and seeing those adorable images brings me immense joy, reflecting my love for them. ”Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him." Psalm 127:3 Some of the questions posed to me were left unanswered, as they were not entirely necessary. God is faithful, and His love is unwavering. If He promises something, He is more than capable of fulfilling it. I have never doubted this; I simply believe that when the time is right, I will indeed become a parent. It was a journey of destiny that led to self-discovery. I must clarify that I have not received any infertility diagnosis. I am fertile, but sometimes life's course cannot be predicted based on the choices we make. I got married at 27 with the aspiration of having my own children. Little did I know that it would take another decade to achieve this, despite being healthy and fertile. But it happened. As I have always maintained, God will never share His glory with anyone. So, when advised to seek help in various places, I choose to keep it to myself, as I firmly believe that no one can truly comprehend your story unless they have walked a similar path. Throughout my journey of becoming a mother, I have maintained unwavering faith in God and remained focused on His promises for me. Not once did I doubt His abilities. Despite being written off by many and hearing negative remarks from some friends, I refused to let those comments affect me. This moment in my life is incredibly fulfilling, and I am deeply grateful to God for this precious gift. It is common knowledge that there are certain factors to consider when it comes to childbirth. People often make negative assumptions about women over the age of 35 and the potential complications they may face during pregnancy. However, I can confidently say that I had a healthy pregnancy from the very beginning until the day of delivery. I did not encounter any problems and gave birth naturally, without the need for any medication. I express my gratitude to God for the exceptional care provided by the nurses, doctors, and midwives at HD Hospital on the day I gave birth. They truly did an outstanding job. This journey of becoming a mother has taught me invaluable lessons. They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing; To shew that the LORD is upright: he is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in him. Psalm 92:14-15

During my pregnancy, I made the decision to keep it a secret from everyone except my older brother, who has always been a source of encouragement for me. I chose not to share this news with anyone else because I wanted to avoid unnecessary stress and the burden of explaining myself. All I needed during that time was my faith in God, and He was there for me every step of the way. When I finally announced the birth of my child to a few close friends, some of them immediately questioned whether I had undergone IVF. However, my answer was a resounding no. I did not conceive my baby through IVF and I didn’t use any medication. This miracle is solely the work of the Lord, and it is truly amazing in our eyes. Once again, I have witnessed God's goodness in my life, and I am forever grateful for this precious gift of life that He has bestowed upon us. In light of my experience, I feel compelled to share my personal insights and advice with women who are at the stage in life where they desire to become mothers. I view this as a calling to live purposefully and to support others on their journey to motherhood. I vividly recall a time when someone asked me when I would have a child, and my response was that the only circumstance in which I wouldn't have a child is if there were no God. Let me emphasize once again that I firmly believe in the existence of God, my Creator. I have never doubted His love for me, and the birth of my child serves as undeniable evidence of His boundless love and grace towards me and my family. I am deeply grateful for all my friends and family who prayed for me in their quiet moments and for those individuals whom God used to provide me with words of wisdom and encouragement. God remains faithful even when we are unfaithful, and I pray that all those who are seeking God's blessing of children will have their heartfelt desires fulfilled in the name of Jesus Christ. On this Mother's Day, I extend my warmest wishes to all the mothers out there, as well as to those who aspire to be mothers, including myself. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. Proverbs 31:25:26 Queendaline's pen/Time-With-Queendaline Greetings, beloved family and friends. I am filled with gratitude as I recount my journey to motherhood. Please join me in thanking God for the blessing of our new family. I am truly thankful for each and every one of you.

Exploring Croatia: A Journey to Remember

Croatia is renowned for its warm and hospitable locals who are always eager to assist and engage with foreigners. The country is home to a plethora of remarkable landmarks, captivating cities, and stunning beaches. The Croatian people are not only friendly but also highly intelligent and well-educated individuals. They possess a wealth of knowledge and can effortlessly converse about the latest literary masterpieces, popular movies, and music trends. I had the pleasure of engaging in thought-provoking discussions with a few Croatians during my visit. During my trip, I had the privilege of being accompanied by two college students who graciously acted as my personal tour guides.

Their extensive understanding of the world and our planet Earth left a lasting impression on me. To my surprise, they insisted on paying for our meal when the bill arrived, showcasing their generosity and kindness. One of the highlights of my journey was visiting the historic Bloody Bridge, where I delved into the rich history of an ancient church. It was fascinating to learn about the longstanding issue of wealth disparity, even within the confines of the church's traditions. Fortunately, in today's society, individuals have the opportunity to read and comprehend the Bible, bridging the gap between the rich and the less fortunate. The hospitality I experienced at the Hilton Canopy in Zagreb was truly exceptional and left an indelible mark on my memory.

The kindness shown by a stranger is always the most heartwarming and unforgettable aspect of any travel experience.

My Experience At Psychiatric Hospital

My Experience at Psychiatric Hospital I was attracted to psychiatry by my experience as a nurse Trainee (Internship) at the GH hospital. It is crucial to maintain regular contact with psychiatric patients in order to gain a deeper understanding of their experiences, rather than being solely captivated by the allure of more exotic conditions. During my time at the psychiatric hospital, I had the opportunity to give a report on a patient with schizophrenia during a visit by the head physician. One particular patient had been confined to a room for 12 years, surviving solely on sweets and displaying a visibly unhealthy appearance, almost skeletal in nature. Throughout my training, I encountered numerous patients with various mental illnesses, and these experiences greatly expanded my knowledge of individuals living with schizophrenia. I became more attuned to their symptoms, as well as their unique facial expressions and gestures. Although their world seemed unfamiliar to me, I found myself constantly thinking about them and pondering the reasons behind psychosis and schizophrenia. It became clear to me that no one deserves to suffer from these mental illnesses, as the pain they endure is invisible and incomprehensible to others. While a physical wound is visible to all, the same cannot be said for the internal struggles of those with schizophrenia. Furthermore, I firmly believe that we should not dismiss the beliefs held by patients regarding the cause and nature of their illness. Research has shown that the greater the divide between a patient's understanding of their illness and that of their physician, the less likely they are to adhere to treatment plans and experience positive outcomes. I had resumed work by 7:am and close 3:15 pm Monday to Friday, including weekend sometime. The Workflows start with duty handover from the nurses in night duty to the morning duty nurses. (7:00 to 7:30 am). After the handover, the nurses on morning duty make a room tours to check on the patients and greet them. During this tour, the patient‘s room will be control, observing if there is anything on the floor and if the rooms are in order. The patients have buffet during breakfast, and everyone prepare his/her breakfast. Breakfast is from 7:00 to 8:00 am) but the patients can always eat anytime they want. Giving Medicine is 8:15 am and the patients become their medication at front of the station office. Around 8:30 is greeting, all the patients with nurses, physiotherapy and occupational therapist will be present to greet the patients and this is like daily structure for the patients… Each patients have a group where they belong for their planned therapy (for example, Group A is music therapy, Group B is gymnastics etc. ) There is therapy for 11:00 and there is therapy for 3:pm depending on the plan for each day. Every Tuesday is senior physician visit. Which start 9:30 to end around 11:00… Here the senior physician we examine the patients by asking them questions and taking observation of their mimic and gestures and as well as the patients response to his questions. Around 12:00 to 12:20 pm is lunchtime and the patients line up to pick the food at front of the station office upon on the call of their names. There are two dining rooms where the patients sits and eat their meals and a nurse must be there to eat with them for 20 minutes this is called (Exposition training). After eating the patients will bring their plate out and whoever has a duty among the patients will then clean both dining rooms. Around 1:00 to 2:pm is handover from morning nurse to afternoon duties nurse. my experience at psychiatric hospital was amazing. Unlike the commonly held view that psychiatric patients are dangerous and aggressive. I find them to be exceptionally beautiful in their own way and unique. Not all psychiatric patients are violent and unstable. In fact I have had wonderful conversations with some of the patients and working with them has really reshape my thinking process in life. Observing the patients remain curious about their mimic and gestures is aspects of everyday life changes in psychiatry. I cannot emphasise enough the importance of maintaining contact with everyday psychiatric patients, and not being lured exclusively by the glamour of exotic conditions. When I was granted the opportunity to give a report about a patient with schizophrenia during 'head physician visit‘ one of the patients with schizophrenia whom has be in only the room for 12 years without eating, he only eats sweets and he doesn’t look healthy, one can nearly see his skeleton (bones)… However, during my training at psychiatric hospital I saw a lot of patients with different mental illness and my observation at the hospital has really broaden my mind on people living with schizophrenia: such as their symptoms, Mimic and Gestures. And their ways of life. Although it looks like a different world to me, as I always observed most of the patients. My thoughts was always with them. As I kept on thinking why psychosis or schizophrenia, nobody deserves to have this mental illness, in the sense that no one can feel the pain of these patients. For example, When an individual have a wound every one can see the wound but a person suffering from schizophrenia, no one can really examine their illness because it is unseen and a strange mental feelings/condition. My opinion! Also, I do think we should not dismiss the patient's belief about the cause and nature of their illness. It has been shown that the greater the disparity between the patient's and the physician's understanding of the patient's illness, the less likely the patient is to adhere to the prescribed treatment.The same caveat applies to the family carers' beliefs about the patient's illness, even if they depart widely from your our own understanding. Finally, maintaining safety; I am not saying/writing this to raise one anxieties, but to convey the important advice I received from a senior colleague during my practical. What he said was ‘never let the patient get between you and the exit door and in an emergency situation press the emergency bells as fast as possible and don’t let the patient get you.