THE NIGHTMARE OF EVERY WOMEN
Klaus Müller was a highly respected man in his community in East Germany.
After meeting Surah a Burundian woman from Bujumbura, the Capital State of Burundi through the intersection of a friend, they got married and flew together back to Germany.
Mr Muller was known to having a child prior to his second marriage and the desire to having another one wasn’t his priority. Surah suffered the consequences of this deprivation; she obviously wanted to be a mother.
In talking to Surah, she wept by the reality of this deprivation. She confessed the delusional ideology of Mullers attempt to wanting her to have her womb removed before they could consume their marriage. Time was passing and she feared the cycle of the third age. She feared getting to that point in her life, where she could no longer be able to bear children.
"Why can’t God allow me to just prostitute my body in order to be able to conceive and give life to a child?”
Those where the anxious words of Surah Muller exhibiting the level of her frustration. She was a woman of faith who feared God and she was conscious of the fact that following this path would not benefit her life in any possible way.
Surah isn't the only woman undergoing this type of situation.
Conversations with other african women who are into interracial marriages, has shown that 50% are going through the exact same problem, and it is not a surprise that 70% mulatto babies are not biological related to their fathers.
By interacting with several German middle age men, studies revealed that 40% of men sperm cannot form a child because they can be removed in their sperm house, due to various reasons. And most men has undergone such procedures without letting their spouses know.
Bearing children is known to be a part of Africa’s culture and tradition. Most african women want their own children; and this deprivation causes some of them to have sexual interactions with strangers during their time of ovulation with the purpose to conceive and bear children for their homes.
So the question of the day is, what needs to be done in such cases?
A marriage is supposed to be consumed. Deprivation causes desolation.
Some people suggest adoption. Little do they know that this procedure is not the same as bearing your own child. Adoption isn't a part of certain peoples culture.
It is unfair to deprive a woman from bearing her own children. My prayers deeply go to all the women around the world facing such dilemmas.
From the desk of Queendaline Schneider.
Relationship Story.
4 comments:
My sister is so disheartening, how this German men go outside their culture to marry women outside their culture and want to threat them as second class citizens as if they dont have the right to be happy or to be called mothers and to make matters worse some of this so called men have already gotten one or two children of their own but will want to deprive the innocent women from Feeling the joy of motherhood. The joy of every woman is to have a kid or children of their own after marriage but that is not the given case of this German men. Which is why so many foreign wife leaves their Husband after a shortwhile which is never their fault as who wouldnt wnat to become a mother and i always wonder why this so called men will not marry old woman from their culture and then live without children. Is really a sad Story my advice to woman especially the foriegn women who will want to marry These men is to always get this men to always sign a binding undertaken before getting married to them affirming their commitment to give the consigned woman a child after marriage if God Permits to avoid a Situation where the woman will be subjected to so many unhealthy unwaranted Situations after the marriage in her bid to get the man to have kid with her which in most cases never happens thereby subjecting the woman to sessions of heartbreaks and depressions. Those of you ladies out there seeking to Marry White men especially the German men open your eyes wide before accepting these men and always go for the ones still under 40s.
You just nailed it right on the cross. It is well! Thanks for your contributions dear.
When God is involved in any project right from the start, it won't end up in stress, frustration and utter disappointment. Survival makes people including women to move to a new place to live and get married and have children and be part of that society but don't leave God behind because a man even if he's Helmut Kohl can falter and disappoint you but God will always give you a soft landing even when you foot slips. Davids.
Very true sir. “If the foundation is destroyed what can the righteous do?” Both men and women foreigners are going through a lot in their interracial marriage but then when “God is involved,” like you said, only then can one have a smooth ride and happy ending as the case may be.
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