THE NIGHTMARE OF EVERY WOMEN
Klaus Müller was a highly respected man in his community in East Germany.
After meeting Surah a Burundian woman from Bujumbura, the Capital State of Burundi through the intersection of a friend, they got married and flew together back to Germany.
Mr Muller was known to having a child prior to his second marriage and the desire to having another one wasn’t his priority. Surah suffered the consequences of this deprivation; she obviously wanted to be a mother.
In talking to Surah, she wept by the reality of this deprivation. She confessed the delusional ideology of Mullers attempt to wanting her to have her womb removed before they could consume their marriage. Time was passing and she feared the cycle of the third age. She feared getting to that point in her life, where she could no longer be able to bear children.
"Why can’t God allow me to just prostitute my body in order to be able to conceive and give life to a child?”
Those where the anxious words of Surah Muller exhibiting the level of her frustration. She was a woman of faith who feared God and she was conscious of the fact that following this path would not benefit her life in any possible way.
Surah isn't the only woman undergoing this type of situation.
Conversations with other african women who are into interracial marriages, has shown that 50% are going through the exact same problem, and it is not a surprise that 70% mulatto babies are not biological related to their fathers.
By interacting with several German middle age men, studies revealed that 40% of men sperm cannot form a child because they can be removed in their sperm house, due to various reasons. And most men has undergone such procedures without letting their spouses know.
Bearing children is known to be a part of Africa’s culture and tradition. Most african women want their own children; and this deprivation causes some of them to have sexual interactions with strangers during their time of ovulation with the purpose to conceive and bear children for their homes.
So the question of the day is, what needs to be done in such cases?
A marriage is supposed to be consumed. Deprivation causes desolation.
Some people suggest adoption. Little do they know that this procedure is not the same as bearing your own child. Adoption isn't a part of certain peoples culture.
It is unfair to deprive a woman from bearing her own children. My prayers deeply go to all the women around the world facing such dilemmas.
From the desk of Queendaline Schneider.
Relationship Story.
