Pastor 's Wife Commits Suicide

This story happened a few weeks ago. At the Glory Ministry Church in Lagos. A successful preacher and a soul winner, an excellent motivational speaker. He was a man of principle and a highly respected pastor. He was married to a beautiful woman and their marriage was blessed with four lovely children. The pastor was the founder of the glory ministry church, and due to his commitment to serve people, he was called to pastored a church.

For many years he always go on evangelism and visitation with his beautiful wife. Oftentimes people will invite the pastor to their home for prayer and counselling, and the pastor will go together with his wife to the house of the injured person.

One day a woman secretly invited the pastor to his house, and the paster went to see the woman without the knowledge. He got to the woman's house, and the woman told him that she is having a severe pain, that he want him (pastor) to lay hand on her and pray for her to receive a divine healing.

According to the story from a reliable source, that was the beginning of rom*n*e between the woman, and the pastor. The woman whose husband has not been around for a period of time due to his work; started having an affair with the pastor. A woman who the pastor and his wife had studied the scriptures with and counselled her. Who was not a member of their church, but some how got the link to the pastor and started calling for prayer and counselling. She became so close to the pastor and his family and sometime sent them gifts. Unknown to the pastor's wife that her husband has already 'fell in love' with the 'strange woman' the very first time the woman invited him to her house. They continue with their secret affair without the pastor's wife having any cue of the husband cheating on her until last month.

The woman has called the pastor as usual and the pastor had showed up, thinking it was business as usual, but this time around, it was 'good news' for the pastor, what was the good news? The woman pastor has been having an affairs with is now pregnant for the pastor and he wants the pastor to her for an abortion, the pastor had doubted if the woman was serious or she is playing pranks on him. Then she showed him medical result of her pregnancy test.

Then the pastor told the woman that she will have the baby for him, but the woman insisted that she wants the pastor to take her to the hospital to abort the baby. But the pastor refused bluntly that he will not go for any abortion with her, that it was enough that he commited an adultery with her but he will not join her to murder the little live that is growing inside of her...

The woman went to the church, where the man and his family are fellowshipping... After the sunday service he called the pastor & his wife, and some miniters in the church and broke the news to them. That she has been having an affairs with pastor and she got pregnant for the pastor. The pastor's wife and the elders of the church asked the pastor and he admitted he has commited the sin of adultery but his wife could'nt belief...

The pastor's wife became depressed, devastated and suffering high blood pressure. Her husband (pastor) was dismissed from his duty as a pastor after he admitted that he has commited the sin of adultery. He left the church, and his wife condition became very worse, she started using overdose  medicine for her sickness. She died from using overdose drugs. The children are highly disappointed in their father and they still cry over the death of their mother: no one knows about the another woman 'disparaging' in her church.

The problem of adultery in churches has been for too long and most pastors and members has been immersed in it for too long. I once watched pastor E.A Adeboye where he talks on some of our spiritual (religion) leaders who are engaging in the act of adultery and when he try to warn them of it they says they know God will forgive of them because Jesus has given them the grace of '70*7'...

Adultery is a sin against the holy spirit and against humanity because not only those who commited the sin of adultery atleast suffer from it but also the family of those involved in the act and it makes the unbelievers to mock the believer because they believe the pastor should be a role model; pastor should pratice what they preach. The only condition Jesus gave for divorce was based on adultery.
" And I say unto you, whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery"- Matthew 19:9

Hear me, if Christ is the husband of the church, don't you think Christ can as well divorce whoever commit an adultery. Story deceiving yourself base on the logic of '70*7' grace does not give license to sin, and also that continue in sin shall perish.
"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord"- Romans 6:23

The main reason of writing this report/story is to help pastors and spiritual leaders realize the danger of adultery. Please if you are having an affair outside your marriage discontiue from  such affair and make a restitution... Pastor cherish your spouse and always tell her your weak points. No one is perfect, strive to finish well in your christain race.

My advice for women, please don't allow the devil to use as agent of darkness for the fall of these Ministers of God. " Behold, I set before you this day a blessing and a curse"- Deuteronomy 11-26
Covered up your nakedness in church. Leave the pastors alone to do their assignment on earth. And pastors take your eyes off your beautiful sisters in the church. I want to address the mode of dressing of christain woman but I will leave that for another time.

I pray God have mercy on me a sinner and you. Shalom!
Queendaline Schneider.